
How to Find the Best Contractors for Your Builds (My $50K Lesson)
Most Builders Don’t Have a Contractor Problem. They Have a System Problem.
If you're constantly chasing contractors who disappear, miss deadlines, or create more problems than they solve, you're not alone. Most builders have been there. But here's the difference between builders who scale and builders who burn out. The ones who scale use a system to hire and manage the right contractors. Every time.
I used to think the lowest bid meant the best deal. Then I got burned for over $20,000. That mistake forced me to build a contractor evaluation system that now allows me to manage over ten projects at a time without babysitting every job site.
Let me walk you through it step by step.
Step 1: Define Exactly What You Need
Before you even start looking, get clear on what your project demands. You cannot expect to find the right contractor if you do not first define what “right” means.
Clarify these four areas:
Quality Standards: Entry-level or premium? Custom details or basic finishes?
Timelines: How fast do they need to deliver without cutting corners?
Communication Style: Do you want daily text updates or weekly in-person check-ins?
Budget Structure: Understand your payment terms, how change orders are handled, and what happens if something goes sideways.
Most builders skip this step and hire based on guesswork. That guesswork is expensive.
Step 2: Build Your Contractor Bench Before You Break Ground
Waiting until you need a contractor is the fastest way to hire the wrong one. You should always be building your bench.
Use these sources:
Permit Office Staff: They see who passes inspections without issues. Ask them who they recommend.
Material Suppliers: They know who pays on time and who causes problems.
Job Sites: Drive neighborhoods where you want to build. If the site is clean, organized, and moving efficiently, stop and talk to the crew.
Referrals from Good Contractors: Professionals know other professionals. Ask who they work with.
Start these conversations now. When you need someone fast, the worst time to start networking is when you are already behind schedule.
Step 3: Vet Every Contractor Like Your Business Depends on It
Because it does. Here's what a real vetting process looks like.
Check their foundation first:
Active license and insurance
Clear financial history
Portfolio you can physically visit
References from other builders and suppliers
Then assess how they operate:
How detailed is their bid?
Do they communicate like a pro?
Are they asking smart questions about the job?
Are they organized, or are they scrambling?
A sloppy contractor on day one will be a liability the rest of the way. Pass quickly and move on.
Step 4: Conduct Real Interviews
Treat this like hiring for your company. Because that is exactly what you are doing.
Ask direct questions like:
How many jobs are you running right now?
What happens if one of your guys calls out or quits mid-project?
What is your policy for weather delays or material shortages?
Can you provide three references from builds in the last six months?
Also, ask about technical code requirements. If they cannot explain current standards in your area, that is a red flag.
You are looking for professionals who operate with structure and clarity. If they cannot articulate their systems, they do not have any.
Step 5: Evaluate Proposals the Right Way
Never choose based on price alone. I have seen more builders lose money from low bids than from any other single mistake.
Instead:
Require detailed bids with line items
Make sure every contractor is bidding the same scope
Flag bids that are too high or too low and ask why
Set payment schedules tied to milestones and performance
Use milestone-based payments. A common breakdown is 60 percent after rough-in and 40 percent after trim-out. Retainage works. Hold back 10 percent until the job is complete and signed off.
If your team signs off on quality before final payment, you will avoid surprises at the end.
Real Example: The $20,000 Lesson
I had three electrical bids on a project in Durham: $12,000, $15,000, and $18,000. The cheapest guy had no recent references, expired insurance, and a vague proposal. He ended up disappearing halfway through the job after failing multiple inspections.
That "cheap" bid cost me $20,000 in delays, replacement labor, and repair work.
The $15,000 contractor? He eventually finished the job the right way. I should have hired him from the start. Lesson learned.
Step 6: Set Them Up for Success from Day One
Hiring the right person is only half of the battle. The other half is how you manage them.
Make sure to:
Use clear, written contracts with scope, timelines, payment terms, and expectations
Set communication protocols before the job starts
Require job site photos, regular updates, and documented change orders
Build strong relationships with consistent trades who want repeat business
Good contractors are worth holding onto. Pay on time. Respect their time. Help them win so they want to keep working with you.
Step 7: Manage Multiple Contractors Like a Builder, Not a Babysitter
Once you are managing more than one build at a time, your systems matter more than your hustle.
Do this:
Stagger project timelines to avoid overlap
Use checklists for each phase of construction
Implement job tracking apps and shared documents
Conduct quarterly reviews with your key trades
This is how you stop building chaos and start building a business that can grow.
Avoid These Costly Mistakes
Learn from other builders' pain.
The most common mistakes:
Hiring friends or family based on loyalty instead of skill
Having no backups when your contractor quits or disappears
Micromanaging good trades and slowing them down
Relying on verbal agreements instead of documentation
Ignoring the lessons that warranty claims are trying to teach you
Every mistake in this list will either cost you money or your reputation. Sometimes both.
Build Your Contractor Dream Team
You are not just collecting contacts. You are building a team that will help you scale.
That team should include:
Primary trade contractors you trust
Specialty subs who can handle advanced scopes
Backup contractors ready to step in if needed
A core group of reliable vendors and suppliers
The goal is to build relationships you can rely on over and over again. That is what allows you to grow without burning out.
Ready to Eliminate Contractor Chaos?
If you are serious about getting your contractor system locked in, it starts with having a real process. I created a Contractor Evaluation Checklist that gives you every question I ask, every red flag to look for, and a scoring system that removes the guesswork.
If you are tired of project delays, contractor no-shows, and cash flow strain, you need this system.
Schedule a free Zoom strategy call and I will walk you through exactly how to apply it to your business so you can scale without the stress.